A ‘Seed of Hope’ for Transgender People in Arab Communities.
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Talleen Abu Hanna, Israel’s first transgender beauty queen, took a selfie while talking to a friend last month in Tel Aviv.
TEL AVIV — When Talleen Abu Hanna was a boy in Nazareth, an Arab city in Israel,
he gave up karate and took up ballet. As a teenager, he stole his
mother’s makeup and his sister’s dresses. He and his buddies would
change in gas stations outside town, then party at nearby gay clubs.
“They
would see boys going in, and we would put on our eye shadow, our wigs
and skirts and dresses, and walk out and say, ‘Hiiii,’ ” Ms. Abu Hanna,
21, said in a recent interview, drawing out the last word.
In
her teenage days, she said, she favored a look she described as Arab
kitsch — heavy eyeliner, blush and foundation, topped with a cheap wig.
After returning home, she had to remember to bite off her fake nails and
replace her sparkly iPhone covers with plain leather ones.
But
it was at one of those parties, when she was 15 or so, that Ms. Abu
Hanna met a woman who told her that she used to be a man. Laughing, Ms.
Abu Hanna asked her friends what “that lady” was smoking. Her friends,
laughing as well, explained gender reassignment surgery to her.
The
explanation came as a revelation to Ms. Abu Hanna, who had always
assumed she would live her life as a very effeminate gay man. “I said:
OMG, really? Seriously?” she said. “There are people who are like me?
And then the idea came in my head, and I held on to it like a rope that
would save me.”
In the spring, a year after transitioning from male to female, Ms. Abu Hanna became Israel’s first transgender beauty queen, winning the Miss Trans Israel pageant,
a Swarovski-studded crown that barely made it over her hair-sprayed
updo, and something she values more: visibility, for herself and for a
cause she believes in.
“She
was so beautiful, impressive,” said Israela Lev, a transgender activist
who organized the pageant and initially spotted Ms. Abu Hanna at a
sushi restaurant in a mall.
Now,
Ms. Abu Hanna is looking ahead to a bigger stage: the global
transgender pageant, Miss Trans Star International, in Barcelona, Spain,
on Sept. 17.
“I
think winning the crown in Barcelona will give some hope, like planting
a seed of hope” for other transgender people, she said. “Imagine
because of who you are, you have to leave your family, home and country —
I am speaking of Arab countries.”
She plans to represent Israel out of “respect, because it is a democracy that has given me peace between my soul and my body.”
She will represent perhaps Israel’s most cosmopolitan face, an Arab transgender woman who comfortably crosses between Palestinians and Israelis, among Muslims, Jews and Christians.
Her Instagram account shows a woman who joyfully lip-syncs to
cheesy songs in Arabic and Hebrew. Her ex-boyfriend is Muslim — his
name, Mohammed, is tattooed on her wrist — and there is a mezuza on her
door. She is from Israel’s Catholic community, a tiny subset of the
Palestinian minority that forms one-fifth of the country’s eight million
citizens.
“I’m Arab. I’m Christian. I’m Israeli. All that is tied together,” Ms. Abu Hanna said. “And I’m going to win.”
She
has a good chance, said Thara Wells, the director of the pageant,
because she has buzz as well as beauty. “Her story is so different,” Ms.
Wells said.
Simply
getting to Barcelona became something of an ordeal for Ms. Abu Hanna,
whose birth name is Hanna Abu Hanna — she adopted Talleen around the
time of her transition. Fees and expenses add up fast, and Israel’s
Ministry of Tourism flatly rejected her funding request of $20,000. The
Foreign Ministry was a bit more receptive, saying the request was under
review. When asked about the delay, the spokesman for the Foreign
Ministry, Emmanuel Nahshon, responded — in verse — on WhatsApp:
“Nerves are tense and egos are tender
when you apply for government money
whether you’re gay, straight or transgender
waiting patiently is not always funny.”
Days later, the Foreign Ministry said it would pay for the entire trip.
But
nothing is simple in this part of the world. Even among gay people, her
quest for the beauty crown has drawn criticism. Leading Palestinian
groups for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people declined to
comment on Ms. Abu Hanna’s activities. But gay and transgender activists
say the groups see her decision to represent Israel as “pinkwashing,” a term that critics use to describe how Israel markets its gay-friendly reputation to shift focus from military occupation.
Lilach Ben David, 26, a transgender woman and activist, said she was “torn.”
“Talleen
Abu Hanna will most definitely be used by the Israeli propaganda
machine in order to justify horrendous crimes against Talleen Abu
Hanna’s own people,” Ms. Ben David said.
But
“if Palestinian society was accepting of Talleen Abu Hanna as a trans
woman,” she said, “then she wouldn’t have to go and work with the
Israeli establishment.”
Being
openly gay and then transgender in that conservative Palestinian
society was never going to be easy for Ms. Abu Hanna. Her father and
much of her extended family cut off relations with her years ago, after
she was outed by an angry boy scout in her troop who found out Ms. Abu
Hanna kept a second Facebook profile as a woman.
The
scandal shook Ms. Abu Hanna’s family. Fearing violence at the hands of a
vindictive relative, her mother gave her $100 so she could flee, which
she did — first to a Palestinian friend in Haifa, Israel, and then to
Tel Aviv.
“Ummi” — “Mom” in Arabic — decorates one of her wrists, a tattoo of gratitude because, she said, her mother keeps in touch.
She
wavered on transitioning, she said, worried that she would lose her
family for good. But one day, Ms. Abu Hanna said, she just felt as if
she would explode. She traveled to Thailand in January 2015 to begin her
transition. She wrote to her relatives, saying she wanted them to love
the woman she was.
In
most other ways, life has been kind to Ms. Abu Hanna, whose transition
has come at a time of greater cultural acceptance of transgender people.
She faces no hostility in using women’s bathrooms, she said, and most
people use the right pronouns when referring to her. She receives a
stipend from the Israeli government, which supports people who are
transitioning.
Her
current boyfriend is a 24-year-old Arab university student. They are
Facebook official, and she smiled as she scrolled through their
seemingly endless selfies on her iPhone.
Yet
in a conflict-riddled society that often puts people in neat
categories, some tensions are unavoidable, as was evident during a
recent photo shoot in Tel Aviv.
Ms.
Lev, who is helping Ms. Abu Hanna prepare for the coming pageant,
changed her into a black dress and draped a scarf over her head, making
her appear as an exotically sexy cliché of a Muslim woman. Ms. Abu Hanna
flinched but acceded to a few shots.
“It
makes her look like an Arab,” said somebody at the shoot. Ms. Abu Hanna
ripped off the scarf. “I don’t want to get involved in politics!” she
shouted in Hebrew. “I want peace!”
Someday,
Ms. Abu Hanna said, she hopes to counsel Arab parents to accept their
transgender children. She then began a rehearsed speech on the subject —
but when asked about her own father, she paused.
Of
course her father loved her, even if he cut off relations, she said. It
was the shame he encountered from his community that kept him away.
“My
father should be proud of me,” Ms. Abu Hanna said, tapping the table
with her long nails. “My father is the father of Miss Trans Israel.”
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